I'm right there with you honey... just let it go and accept him as a friend. There's other men out there that will be into you 110% and if you two really get along, there's no reason why you can't have an amazing friend in your life. That was advice just given to me by the man I love, but can't have. I asked him about another man and it made me realize that you can still love him, you just have to accept his decisions as well. If he really appreciates you in his life, he'll miss you if you aren't there. Hope that made sense.