Dude's a skeeze. Really. He left you for another woman (whether or not he had a good reason is debatable), and then left her immediately after she lost his baby!!?! She's going through a huge emotional trauma, and he just drops her??! Run, honey. He's weak, and he'll do the same to you.

Oh girl, get your ass away from this guy! He's shit. Go find someone that's actually worth your time! He might be amazing in bed, but once he starts treating you like shit, you'll see what a lowlife he is.

Well did he leave her? You didn't say so I'm assuming he hasn't. Dump him. He's a loser and he's only dragging you down with him. Don't you feel like you're better than that?

It was pretty obvious there was an attraction. He came onto me pretty strong, we met in private, but I just couldn't go thru with it. After his attempt at a kiss, I was scared to death. He was amazing, and ever so concerned. Gave me a hug, and sent me on my way. I went home, made passionate love to my husband, and have no regrets.

Original poster here. This situation is much more complicated than everything written. It would take me forever to explain. And really, it would just be an attempt for me to justify this ridiculous situation. He hasn't left her. They just moved in together like 2 weeks ago. In my delusional head, I think that he's going to come back to me. I know I'm better than this situation and never, ever would have thought I'd be at this point in a million years. I'm in love with him, and that, as I think has been proven, is making me do incredibly stupid things. This whole situation has made me reevaluate everything I used to hold as my values and morals. I've turned into 'that girl.' I will never judge anyone for bad relationship decisions again.