Break up with him for sure!

He was hoping that you would leave him since he's too much of a wuss to leave you. Give him his wish. Leave. I bet you'll be much happier and he'll be miserable. Good luck.

I say dump the bonehead. What are the goals of dating this individual? If your goals are to get married to the right person, then someone with different goals (ie. won't marry you) isn't going to work out so well. If you went to a movie and they announced they were only playing previews, would you stay or would you feel ripped off? Dating isn't marriage and for sure just because you date someone doesn't mean you are going to marry them, but it is the way you get to know someone better so that perhaps you might determine if they are marriage material and as a way to grow yourself in learning how to deal with someone at an interpersonal level.

That depends on whether or not marriage is something that is important to you. If it is, then there is no point in staying in a relationship that has no future.

If marriage is something that is important to you... then sadly, yes, you should definitely break up with him!

Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?

That would be a yes. Break up with him. He is wasting your time.

My ex-bf told me the same thing a few months before I broke up with him. I never thought marriage was a big deal to me until he said that, and I broke up with him because of that one thing.

I probably would. I mean, where is it gonna go? You'll either break up now or break up later. Why waste your time?

I broke up with my live in boyfriend of two and a half years when I realized that I never wanted to marry him. He talked about it all the time and I just went along with it. I thought I just didn't want to get married, but then realized it was just that I didn't want to marry him. I've been dating the new guy for a few months now, and he's the first guy I've ever thought I would actually want to marry. It's not like I want to get married soon, but just knowing that I'm actually interested in it in the future is promising and I finally feel good.