07/30/08 3:41 PM | category: Doing It

I just started dating this gorgeous and passionate European man. We have incredible sex, but it takes me forever to orgasm. I am a multiple g-spot orgasm-kinda girl, but I need to establish trust in a relationship first to truly let go. I have explained this to him, but my lover is so adamant that I come that he refuses to come himself! Then, when he does come by accident, he feels terrible, which puts so much pressure on me! He thinks he is bad in bed and doesn't believe that I need more time emotionally, not more attention in bed. He does everything right, but I'm worried that he is not enjoying sex. How do I get him to understand that a girl does not have to come every time to enjoy sex?
By the way, I love sex and would have it 5 times a day if it were up to me. I just can't come the second you touch me.

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