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08/25/08 3:25 PM | category: Tricks & Tips

I don't know what to do- I tried Anal sex with my FH and it hurt SO bad. I ended up crying. I LOVE a finger in there, I cum so hard that way. What are we doing wrong? I have never done anal before and he has once to a chick but it seems as if it wasn't her first time.

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Anonymous said:
Use lube. Go slow. Progress from finger to toy to your man's.... When he moves to penetrate push as I'd you are trying to "go" Use a condom And clean up before you have any subsequent contact. Try to enjoy it. Don't despair if you don't. Maybe you just like a finger....
August 25, 2008 4:28 PM
Anonymous said:
I second the lube. Use LOTS. Have him put just a bit in at a time and then pull out just a bit (not all the way out) then in a bit farther and back out a little etc. and have him go really really slowly!!! And you pushing slightly like if you were going to go poop helps to open up and relax the muscles down there. My husband and I have done it 4 or 5 times and every time it hurts just a bit at the begining then not at all.
August 25, 2008 8:02 PM
Anonymous said:
There are two sets of muscles in there and you need to me super relaxed, its the second set of muscles that hurt. there are also kits for getting used to it...
August 25, 2008 9:58 PM
Anonymous said:
use toys anally on a regular basis starting with one the same size or just slightly larger than that finger you like up there. Gradually increase the size until you can take hubby's penis and as stated above, take it SLOW and LOTS of lube always
August 26, 2008 9:11 AM
Anonymous said:
i thought i was the only one in this situation! IT HURTS SOOOOOOOO BADD!! And we have tried the lube and lots of it AND going slow...we've managed to do it ONCE but that's it and i was scared the whole time. I know it makes a difference if you just RELAX but i know i have a hard time doing that. good luck!
August 27, 2008 9:09 AM
Anonymous said:
We have only done it 3 times but im never able to cum because im not relaxed, but when i was drunk and i was able to relax it was way better, and use the wet pure platinum lube its great and start with fingers and then like the previous post said in and out very slow!!
August 28, 2008 9:28 PM
Anonymous said:
You can always take the numbing way... try some "anal ease" or any type of numbing water based lube specifically made for anal sex.... and if he'll let you and you are both adventurous... try giving him the finger or more so he's on the same page as to how much it does hurt
August 29, 2008 4:07 PM
Anonymous said:
It will hurt the first few times. If you dont like him in you, just keep going with the finger. You will loosen up soon. Dont freak out. I found the first few times we did it, I was drunk, it helped relax. Now we can do it being sober! Use a condom!!! If your going to use anal ease, make sure you use a condom, it helps with clean up after!
September 20, 2008 8:38 PM

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