be gentle. be playful. be respectful. read her body language, if she's uncomfortable, change it up.
Anonymous said:
Lot's of AstroGlide
Anonymous said:
make sure that she's wet and turned on before you do it. also you'll want to start prepping her by fingering, work your way up from 1. chances are, her first time will probably hurt, but that's just the way it is sometimes.
just make sure that if her face says it hurts, stop or go slower.
Anonymous said:
Slow, sure, but not too slow. Enough foreplay and you probably won't need lube. I came the first time I had sex because my partner used a steady, moderately paced rythym and waited until I was ready.
Anonymous said:
go slow and understand that the first time (or several) may not necessarily be "the best sex ever". it sometimes (usually i think) takes awhile for a woman to get to know and feel comfortable with her body. ask her what feels good and go with that. and please please don't pressure her to orgasm. that will most likely make her feel really uncomfortable.
Anonymous said:
GO SLOW!
Anonymous said:
Communicate a lot with her beforehand. Find out how she wants it to be--and then fulfill it.
Anonymous said:
Tease her! Wait until she's incredibly horny and wet. I'm a firm believer that it wont hurt if she wants it bad enough!
Anonymous said:
FOREPLAY!
And start with a finger, then two, then move on. If she ain't wet, don't do it.
Anonymous said:
get married first!
Anonymous said:
It may hurt no matter how turned on she is...
It did for me, and I was very ready.
What matters is that you are understanding.
Anonymous said:
My first time didn't hurt- try a finger, two then move on. Don't forget LOTS of foreplay, keep it slow and sexy and make sure she doesn't get rushed at all- with anything. In meetings before THE event try and get her comfortable with her body; and you being all over it. She will be more at ease when things progress.
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